Tales from the road less traveled

We're on the road from Debt to Financial Independence. Our passengers include Momma (me), Wes (my husband) and our six children. The road promises to be long and interesting.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Rumbly Grumbly Day for Momma

A lot of my favorite bloggers write about Gazelle Intensity. The basic premise is that you focus on reducing your debt with all the intensity of a Gazelle outrunning a cheetah. I'm amazed at the lengths at which some people are able to go to accomplish this. I admire the dedication and fortitude that it takes to stick with this plan.

Wes and I just aren't those people. We have two debts, total. My student loan is $6,000ish and is direct debited monthly from our bank account. Since this debt provides me with a tax deduction, I'm not incredibly worried about paying it off early.

A recent review of our tax situation reveals that our total back tax debt is $77,537. The tax debt WAS down to $65,963, but we just had to add another $11,574 to that number for 2007 (after the $25,000 we already paid). These are the numbers that keep me up at night. I send payments every month, and snowflake when I can, however, Wes and I don't make this our top priority.

I cut costs where I can. I shop with the Grocery Game. I turn out lights whenever I leave a room. I take shorter showers, have a high efficiency washing machine, and line dry our socks. We eat out less, shop less, say "No" to our children more often than we want to. We're making moves to a more frugal lifestyle, but we never had an extravagant one before. We're already living on less than 40% of our gross income. There aren't a lot of corners left for us to cut (that we are willing to cut).

I think the real problem with the tax debt is that it has so many negative emotions attached to it. We get anxious and more than a little angry that we can't seem to dig out of this hole. The interest and penalties accrue at 6% apr, compounded daily, plus .5% per month. The IRS won't negotiate payment arrangements because Wes doesn't have steady income and I don't make enough to cover our basic expenses. They have put our account on "non collect" status, but it will continue to accrue penalties and interest until our income is more stable.

Today, I'm not interested in getting this debt paid off. Today, I want to stop saying "No" to my family because the IRS has better plans for our income. /rant

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Saturday, March 15, 2008

First Paycheck

Yesterday, we got the FIRST check made out to Wes' new company. WHEW... I have to be honest, I was a bit panicked. The payment was 30 days overdue. Our savings account was officially down to one mortgage payment and 1/2 month worth of child support. To say that Momma was a little stressed might be the understatement of the year.

So, the check has been deposited. "Payroll" has been processed. The new Business ING Direct account has been established. This morning, I feel like we're getting a little more control going in our situation.

I was able to send in the debt payments that I usually send on the 15th of the month:
$450 for Federal Tax Debt
$300 for State Tax Debt
AND! I sent in my $14.36 Snowflake (Thanks PaidTwice!!!)

I'm now off to the thrift store to find costuming goodness for an upcoming costume party. This should be fun.

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Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Home Accounting Programs

I spent 14 hours yesterday updating a year's worth of banking transactions. Why? Because my Microsoft Money program stopped recognizing the file extentions and wouldn't open the downloaded transactions from my bank. GRRR.

So, I now have Quicken. Downside is that it's a different file type. I had to download the entire year worth of transactions again. That means I had to approve all 2500 (yes... Two Thousand Five Hundred) transactions again. Holy cow... we do 200 transactions a month? That's INSANE.

Anyway, I was able to find $17,000 in tax deductions though. That was pretty nice. Now I have a good starting place for simplifying our finances. The new program works better and worse than Microsoft Money. Matching duplicate transactions isn't possible. That's a pain in the...er...

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Monday, January 21, 2008

The Beginning

My story is a little different than most of the PF blogs I read on a daily basis. I did get into credit card problems in college and defaulted on my student loans. Being from a poverty stricken area and watching my mom just rack up bad debt and walk away from it, it wasn't hard for me to ignore those bills coming in the mail and allow everything to go into collections.

However, once I separated from my first husband and moved to Atlanta, GA, I got a decent (for me) full time job. I called up the federal financial aid office and got the ball rolling on refinancing those loans to get them into good repayment standing. It wasn't easy to raise 3 daughters on $10 an hour in an expensive area with no other means of financial support, much less pay off debt while I did it. But, when you're determined, you'd be amazed at what you can do.

While I made darned sure to make those student loan payments every month, I completely ignored the two credit card bills I had. All total the debt was about $1500 in credit cards. So, I just concentrated on being able to feed and house my children and let those two debts go to the wind. They eventually got charged off by the credit card companies. I definitely don't recommend this as an avenue for dealing with debt, since it wreaked complete havoc on my credit rating. But, I kept on paying (still am) those student loan payments.

Right now, our total outstanding debt looks like this:
Student Loans: $4,700
Back Taxes: $70,000
Mortgage: $148,000

I paid off my mini-van two days ago, 9 months early, so we no longer have a car payment. That's one less worry. I know that doesn't look like "alot" to some people, but believe me, $75,000 in unsecured debt is not any fun to look at. My goal is to have that paid off by January 2010 (2 years!).

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